It was a day filled with meetings, more than usual. Lucky me, I had time to squeeze in visits with couple of my elderly friends. I planned to visit Andrew* in the nursing home first, then go through the connecting door to the assisted living building where his mother lives. Andrew is almost 80 years old and has Alzheimer’s disease. His mother Margaret is 100 years young and … Continue reading Madonna and Child
Luke 1:26-56 She was an ordinary girl. We remind ourselves of it every year at this time. We know nothing about Mary except that she was pledged to be married to Joseph. Later on we get a few hints about her personality, and there is one clue even in the annunciation—the encounter with the angel Gabriel. When he told Mary that God was pleased with … Continue reading Same Song, Next Verse
Photo: A visit with my dear friend, Bibi Sangho, in Mali. It was days away from a much anticipated trip to Mali when I awoke to the news that there was a terrorist attack in Paris, where I had planned to spend three days enjoying time alone wandering the streets of the Marais district. The layover in Paris had to be canceled. Disappointing, but at … Continue reading Favor, and True Wealth
One of the things I have come to realize with age is this: numbers don’t always deliver. If you are trying to lose weight, it can be helpful to count calories or Weight Watchers points to reach a healthy goal. Numbers on the scale give you an idea of your progress. On the other hand, facing the actual size of your heft can mock you … Continue reading The Tally, and Grace
If she shows up at my office door, I don’t have to look at the calendar to know that we are nearing the end of the month. She needs money. I know what she needs it for. She needs cigarette money. I have actually given it to her in the past, initially surprised at my own lowered standards. But she suffers from mental illness, and … Continue reading Coming Up Empty
I chose curiosity. When someone close to me came out, she was anxious about the reaction of her family. My go-to response to all personal revelations is to assure each person that I will always love them, no matter what. I believe this gut reaction was cultivated in me by my parents, who have demonstrated deep and unconditional love for all six of their children, Runaway … Continue reading Curiosity as Faith
Words matter. I realized this early on, so that when I was still in elementary school, if somebody asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, my answer was “a poet.” I can’t say I have actually developed the talent for that, but words still move me deeply, and I strive to craft my sermons and essays thoughtfully. Language is often the … Continue reading Second Person Singular
saint sinner seeker 